About six weeks back, I received an email from a female who has been strength training for the last 5 years. She started when she was an overweight, out of shape college graduate who had added quite a few pounds since starting her new 9-5 desk job. After her newfound love for strength training and moderate cardio, she experienced a fat loss of 20 lbs over a period of about 6 months. Her body composition changed pretty drastically as the new muscle gain was evident 20lbs later. This didn’t surprise me given her previous experience with athletics in high school (she played soccer and has some fantastic quads). I will leave her name out of this article for sake of anonymity and/or embarrassment.
She experienced what I call the newbie phenomenon. It’s such a wonderful feat; you get someone on the proper training program, ensure adequate nutrients and magic seems to happen. They build muscle and lose fat simultaneously; it’s so much fun to watch this happen. I wish I could go back to those days because I could get by on so much crap with regards to my intake and all the funny stuff I did in the gym. Those days are gone but I digress.
Now she had just changed jobs again, another 9-5 but during the transition she got so caught up in the stress of moving cross country that she let her training and diet slip a bit. One week out turned into two. Two weeks turned into a month. Then she “forgot” to find a gym near her new residence, so one month turned into three and before she knew it, she was six months out of this great habit she had created for herself. The weight came back too.
Training/Diet Regimen
In her email, she explained everything to me: how she got started, her stats, body weight, personal record’s etc. She then sent me another story via electronic mail with this crazy detailed plan about how she was going to get her body back and lose the fat in one month. Her plan was to do cardio before and after work plus strength training during her lunch break. She told me on the weekends she would perform HIIT conditioning drills to speed up the fat loss.
Then she alluded to how she was completely changing her diet to something she had never done before. She’d been reading about a diet that suggested we eat like her ancestors did. She professed she would only eat meat and fat, no carbs. Then I asked where her ancestors originated and if they had a Starbucks. She had no clue. So my response went something like “well, how in the hell are you going to eat like they did?”
Complications
Over the course of a few days, as I tried my best to talk some sense into her, I made note of a few things. The first issue I addressed was that it took her about 4-5 months to get out of shape, pack the weight back on and return to misery; therefore it just might take as long to get back to where she was before. I said might take as long simply because it could take less time. But since I am of the moderate crowd, let’s just agree that it’s going to take a hell of a lot longer than the single month she had allocated herself.
I then expressed that I thought her approach was crazy and figured she would quit within two weeks. She was pissed and even swore at me a little. In an outburst(all caps in gmail), she said she would prove me wrong and guess what; our communication was dead until 10 days later when she emailed me with the subject line of you were right, please help me
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Uncomplicate Me, Please
I told her that a slower approach would probably be best considering the desk job not allowing for much NEAT. I advised to limit cardio to one session per day either before or after work and to do her strength training 3x per week at whatever time of day she chooses. I also advised that if she is going to do cardio everyday that she make darn sure it’s low intensity, such as walking around the block a few times, getting on the elliptical or biking through the neighborhood. I knew for a fact she lacked the work capacity HIIT would require so it’s better to be safe than sorry in this situation.
When we discussed the new approach to training, I asked her how/if it differed than what she did when she first got into shape 5 years back. She said, “You know, aside from a few movements and mobility drills you suggested, it’s not too far off from what gave me such great results.”
Objectivity and Sustainability
It’s obvious she lacked the temperance and objectivity to return to what worked previously. Her emotions from rediscovering her old self and regaining 15-20lbs definitely had an effect on her psyche, thus the poor decision making.
She failed to realize that her old approach was all she needed. There was no need to start a rigorous diet or a new training regimen that would slay an Olympic athlete. The beauty is found in going back to what worked, taking your time and executing. All you must do is just make it through each day. One day becomes a week. One week becomes two. Two pounds lost becomes four etc.
I am happy to report she is enjoying training again, strength is improving and she is well on her way to bringing sexy back.








hey JC
first off: awwwwsome site all round. the edginess and quirky humour injection is mad power super magic explosive!
yeah. diet sustainability. meh. it’s an idea that applies to a whole lot of diff areas. what’s interesting to me is the root cause of it. the fluctuations in optimism and simple falling the fvck off the proverbial rails.
i think it comes down to the core reason why people either succeed or fail in anything. just wrote a whole article trying to explain it but comes down to living in flow and being constructive as opposed to limited and destructive. hmmmm.
keep well and in touch mate
alex – unleash reality
For me, mine is very sustainable now. I just wrote a little about it. What Our Ancestors Ate – I’m really tired, so I hope it make sense.
In the neighborhood of 4,000 calories is maintenance level for me. I generally eat one meal a day. This is about the only way I can stay under 4,000 calories. 7,000 – 9,000 calories a day is very easy for me. In fact it’s not tough for me to pack that into one meal even eating 100% paleo. I usually don’t calorie count binges, but I know I’ve had them well over 10,000 calories in one sitting (sometimes I get on Dairy Queen’s website days after).
It did take me several tough months to ween myself off my very bad Western diet. I just had to re-train my brain on what was food. Now I rarely binge or stray. Maybe… once a month. I take pictures of a lot of the stuff I eat for shits and giggles. You can see some of those here: Best of last 90 days – I was carb cycling then, so there’s a few things I wouldn’t probably eat now.
that what our ancestors ate article was awesome!
this article reminds me of myself back in the day when i was obsessed with cardio lol. Good stuff JC!
Nice one JC. Us women can get a bit nutso when it comes to body image and training. But you knew that already…
And I totally agree with Skyler too. I am very methodical, logical for the most part. But when it comes time to get really lean-totally “Type 1 with my hair on fire” nutso whackjob. That’s when an objective eye comes in very, very handy.
Great post and great advice. I wish your lady friend the best
thanks. I hope I get a random email soon with a progress update.
Wow! Cardio before AND after work. Weights in-between? HIIT on weekends? I’m speechless.
Looks good to me
I’m a big fan of saying diet is one of the few things that otherwise sane people go “Type-A-with-my-hair-on-fire” about. It takes practice, it shouldn’t be (total) drudgery, there will be mistakes…just like anything else you start out doing. Us “masters” still share the same issues, albeit much smaller scale.
Best,
Skyler
we think a lot alike, sir.